Thursday, May 31, 2007



I was once quoted in the press as saying : "Bill DeBlasio feels your pain, but then does not do anything about it."
I still stand by that statement. The rezoning of Carroll Gardens is a prime example. In a recent post, I explained that
Bill De Blablah , our Councilman, talks about helping the community to downzone without actually doing so . Below is an article on the latest efford of the Carroll Gardens Neighborhood's Association's efford to move the process forward, despite De Blasio's foot dragging.
It is pretty personal for me since my husband Glenn has been part of the process and I feel his frustration with our elected officials.
It's no surprise, that Glenn's questioning of the rampant development in our neighborhood has flagged him as anti-development and probably resulted in him not getting appointed to Community Board 6, though he had applied.

Read this week's coverage on the issue:
No ‘end zone’ yet - CGNA brings rezoning request to the city
By Joe Maniscalco 05/26/2007
Click here:
The Courier: Rezoning Carroll Gardens

Wednesday, May 30, 2007


Almost twenty years ago, when my husband and I bought our house in Carroll Gardens, Brooklyn, our families thought we were crazy. My parents could not believe that after spending my childhood in Germany and France, after my years as a single in Manhattan, I would end up in Brooklyn. For my husband's parents, it was more a question of having worked so hard to move from Brooklyn to Long Island to offer their son a better life just to see him turn around to get right back to Brooklyn after college.
Back then, people called us Yuppies, short for Young Urban Professionals. I never got that. After all, we did not work for banks or law firms. We were struggling for many years to cover the mortgage and to save up so that we could pay for some of the bigger renovation projects. Saturdays and Sundays were spent in dirty clothes working on the house and the yard. No architects, home decorators or landscape designers here. We did everything ourselves.
Now, twenty years later, we have acquired a new pejorative label; NIMBY, short for Not In My Back Yard, a label signifying that we question the mindless, style-less building going on here.
In our own way, we have contributed to Carroll Gardens becoming a desirable neighborhood. And now, we have to protect what we so lovingly restored from developers who don't care about the neighborhood. They see profit, we see a historically significant enclave in New York City which is worth protecting.
I am not against building on empty lots, but I am against building ugly boxes in the middle of a brownstone neighborhood. I maintain that it does not cost more to design contextually. We just have to demand it for our neighborhood. We have to speak up!
So if that makes me a Nimby, so be it. But I will be damned if I spent twenty years saving a piece of history for New Yorkers, just to have some money hungry developer build an ugly box.

Tuesday, May 29, 2007


Photo from Curbed

Wherever Architect Robert Scarano, Jr. is building in Brooklyn, controversy is sure to follow. Known for pushing the envelope when it comes to zoning laws, Scarano buildings mostly end up taller and uglier than most buildings in the neighborhoods in which he builds. His creative interpretation of New York City's system of zoning which regulate such things such as height, floor area, setbacks, and number of dwelling unit has led to many lawsuits and fines. In February 2006, the Department of Buildings charged Scarano with "violating zoning or building codes on 25 projects in Brooklyn, including several cases in which it alleged that new buildings he designed were larger than they should have been.
Now this same Scarano has set his sights on the corner of Smith Street and 2nd Place right here in my nabe of Carroll Gardens. The site happens to also be the gateway to Carroll Gardens because the main subway entrance happens to be there. And we are not even talking about his other residential building on Carroll Street between Hoyt and Bond which was slapped with a work- stop order and has been in limbo ever since.
Needless to say, the neighborhood is up in arms. A group is forming which is planning a demonstration at the site very soon. You can bet I will be there, because not only is the building a veritable horror, the mere idea tha Scarano has not lost his architecture licence after all his unlawful constructions is more than surprising. He must know what hand to grease.
You can be sure that I will be at the protest. If our elected officials are already dragging their feet about downzoning our neighborhood, we as residents need to take matter into our own hands by letting developers know that they can not build any piece of sh-t here.
I will post further info about protests and meetings regarding this building site.

Saturday, May 26, 2007





Imagine buying an entire Tuscan village. Yeah, I could go for that.
A German tour operator just did exactly that. But I wonder how the inhabitants of this little Italian village feel about a German invasion. I am already sick of the tourists marching up and down Smith Street here in Brooklyn. I could not imagine living in a village that has just become a vacation resort for Herr and Frau Müller from Kaiserslautern. Read below and you will know what I mean.



German firm buys Tuscan village
A German tour operator has bought an entire village in Tuscany.
http://www.ananova.com/news/story/sm_2347547.html



Tenuta de Castelfalfi has been snapped up by TUI and is to be turned into an integrated holiday playground for German tourists.
The medieval settlement, north of Siena and close to Florence and Pisa, is to be renamed Toscana Resort Castelfalfi.
"The Germans have conquered our village!" declared the local paper, Il Tirreno, following news of the sale.
Complete with four square miles of land, a three-star hotel, 18-hole golf course, olive groves, vineyards and scores of elegantly crumbling villas, Castelfalfi is believed to have been bought for £170m.
Everything from the historic castello that gives the village its name and perches above it on a rocky peak, to its old ramparts, houses and gardens, were part of the deal.
Only the church was out of bounds, but the company is obliged to pay for it to be renovated.
Once it has been given a makeover, Castelfalfi is expected to attract 3,200 guests at any one time and will bring mass tourism to a region that attracts holidaymakers because of its small-scale family-run hotels.

Friday, May 25, 2007

The Unwanted Thing



This is Ted Leo and the Pharmacists from their 2007 album Living with the Living



I am sitting on my stoop, enjoying a nice balmy evening after a particularly stressing week. What better way of relaxing than with some good new music. Here is my internet music find of the evening. Do you like it?

Priceless little old ladies surfing the net...

Thursday, May 24, 2007



For those of you who know Carroll Gardens in Brooklyn, you know that what we have here is pretty special. For those who don't, our neighborhood is a rather well preserved example of a brownstone neighborhood: rows and rows of beautiful turn of the century townhouses. In any other big city, city officials would protect such a historical treasure. Especially if the community wants it. In the case of our elected officials, they attach conditions to the the protection of the neighborhood. Our Councilman Bill DeBlasio (yes the same one mentioned in yesterdays entry) seems to make his support contingent on the rezoning of the Gowanus Canal area, a neighboring strip of mixed use development which he wants to rezone to open it up for residential development or rather, overdevelopment. In other words, he will help the Carroll Gardens Neighborhood Association protect Carroll Gardens if it sells their Gowanus neighbors down the river.
What Bill DeBlahBlah seems to forget is that the Gowanus area is part of Carroll Gardens too. He justifies his pro-development stance by saying that rezoning in favor of development means that we can demand an affordable housing component from developers. That sounds very noble. However, why does the city need developers to do that? If Bill is that concerned about creating lower cost housing, why does he not reach out to such worthwhile organizations as Habitat For Humanity. The city is sitting on plenty of property all over the city that could be developed by non-profit organizations. Do we really need developers to do it for us in exchange for allowing them to build into the sky?
Oh when, oh when will politicians remember that they are elected to represent citizens and not commercial interests?



* Yes, the Glenn Kelly mentioned in the article below is no other than my other half

From The Carroll Gardens/Cobble Hill Courier 05/21/2007
Pols tepid on Gardens rezoning
By Joe Maniscalco

After a painstakingly-long process of surveying community concerns, cataloguing the local housing stock and building neighborhood consensus, the Carroll Gardens Neighborhood Association is finally ready to bring its rezoning plan to the city administration.
But just as the group prepares for a scheduled meeting with City Planning later this week to present its plan for preserving the unique character of Carroll Gardens from overdevelopment, murmurs are beginning that local elected officials aren’t as solidly on board with the effort as originally believed.
CGNA member Glenn Kelly made the observation at Monday night’s meeting on 1st Place after talking to both Councilmen Bill de Blasio and David Yassky.
“They didn’t seem as eager as they say they are at meetings,” said Kelly. “It sounded to me that they were just going to sit back and let City Planning take over.”
Councilman de Blasio has talked about coupling the effort to rezone Carroll Gardens with efforts to rezone the Gowanus and “maximize” the amount of affordable housing there – especially for senior citizens.
“I also think it is crucial that the rezoning be designed to minimize displacement of existing jobs, and to provide opportunities for industrial firms to grow and to locate in the area,” de Blasio said. “The Gowanus rezoning offers us an opportunity to make sure the Carroll Gardens downzoning is also accomplished and that’s why I believe it is important that they be considered together.”
The CGNA however, doesn’t it see it that way.
“We feel as a group that what’s going on in Gowanus is separate from what’s going on here,” Kelly said.
The CGNA rezoning plan covering the entire community calls for new restrictions on the height of buildings to generally reflect what already exists on the ground.
Many in the community fear that without such restrictions, blocks of existing row houses could be bought, torn down and replaced with soaring multi-unit towers.
They see troubling warning signs already throughout the traditional three- and four-story brownstone neighborhood.
One such project – by architect Anthony Scarano – reportedly calls for 46 units of housing in an eight-story development at 2nd Place and Smith Street.
Critics of overdevelopment also say there is the potential for the footprints of existing properties to be combined allowing for even taller structures.
Carroll Gardens’ signature front yards, meanwhile, could also be counted as wide streets, which potentially give developers license to go bigger than anything that now exists in the community.
“We don’t know what is going on [with Gowanus], or when it’s going to happen,” said Kelly. “We have a pressing need here.”
The CGNA has already taken its rezoning plan to Borough Hall and Community Board Six – which has been lending technical assistance along the way.
“I give them a lot of credit taking it to the point where they have gotten it to,” said District Manager Craig Hammerman. “Hopefully, the city will give it a warm reception. Carroll Gardens brings certain images to mind, perhaps nostalgic, but a history worth preserving.”
While acknowledging the need for the support of elected officials – any Carroll Gardens rezoning plan will ultimately have to go through the Uniformed Land Use Review Procedure and be approved by the City Council – CGNA President Maria Pegano suggested the group might have to do an “end run around” officials who aren’t supportive of their efforts.
The group’s leadership has called on members and other supports to write letters to City Planning advocating the rezoning changes.
The CGNA could face opposition from other quarters, as well.
Despite the results of a communitywide questionnaire citing overdevelopment as the chief concern of neighborhood residents, some owners of 4-story buildings have started to grouse that new zoning would impede their ability to expand their properties if they desired to do so.
That however, is contrasted by those who are fed up with the prospect of having their garden views replaced with cinderblock walls.
Some now even want the scope of the CGNA rezoning effort to be extended down to Van Brunt Street.
“There is a lot of open space available for development,” Pegano warned.
Hammerman said that the group was fully prepared to meet with City Planning this week.
“Absolutely,” he said. “They’ve done a lot of good, hard work. It’s time that they checked in with the city.”
Those wishing to preserve the essential character of their neighborhood aren’t out of the woods even if City Planning supports the rezoning effort, however.
As demonstrated in other “downzoned” communities across Brooklyn, the advent of new zoning regulations only increases building efforts as developers rush to “beat the clock.”
“No is not an option,” Kelly said. “We do have to get this moving.”

Wednesday, May 23, 2007




What happens here in Brooklyn when a Community Board opposes big development? Well, the borough Prez and Council members who want to give away our land to developers such as in the Atlanic Yards case just kick off the offending board members who voted against the project. Nice!
Community Board 6 is my community board and the members listened to the people they represent and voted against supporting Ratner's mega development. Now they have been punished for doing so by Marty Markowitz, David Yassky and Bill DeBlasio by simply not beeing reappointed. I can only imagine what yes-men have been put in their place.
Shame on those three politicians. I knew from the beginning that Bill DeBlasio was an unsavory character. He was supposedly watching out for our children's education while on District 15th school board. Meanwhile it became clear that he was way too busy running Hillary Clinton's first senate campaign and refused to see the signs that our School Superintendant was squandering education dollars. ( Does the name Frank deStefano ring a bell?)
As for Markowitz, he has developed such an ego that it stands in the way of him making good decisions for our borough.
And Yassky, all I can say is, shame on you. I thought you were better than those two egomaniacs.


From The New York Observer
The Brownstone 9: Markowitz Purges Community Board 6
by Matthew SchuermanPublished: May 22, 2007
Nine members of Brooklyn’s Community Board 6 have not been reappointed to another two-year term after the board took several votes opposing the Atlantic Yards project.
“I’m rather disappointed. I think that it could have been handled better and I think that I will continue to work for my community and the greater good of the community through the Community Board,” said one of the deposed members, Jerry Armer, who had served on the board for more than 20 years and was chairman at the time the votes were taken. “What we were doing was giving the community a voice and reflecting the community.”
Community boards are made up of 50 people, half of whom are appointed each year, so the blood-letting was not as great as some had expected or feared. The borough president—in this case, Marty Markowitz, a big fan of Atlantic Yards—makes the appointments, although half of them are recommended by local City Council members in the district. Community Board 6 encompasses most of Brownstone Brooklyn.
A spokeswoman for Mr. Markowitz would not explain the appointments, or lack thereof, so it was a little hard to ascertain just what was the motivation, or even if all the displaced members had voted against Atlantic Yards. She said that a statement would be coming out shortly. But last week, Councilman Bill de Blasio defended his right not to recommend members who voted against Atlantic Yards, saying that it was a vote against affordable housing, which is one of his core beliefs.
One of Mr. de Blasio’s members, Madelaine Murphy, was not reappointed, according to a list obtained from the district office, which received it today. Nor were three other members who had been recommended by Councilman David Yassky, another supporter of the project: Pauline Blake, Al Cabbad and Theresa Ricks. Mr. Markowitz failed to reappoint Mr. Armer and four others whom he had both recommended and appointed previously: Angela Beni, Bill Blum, Barbara Longobardi and Marilyn Oliva.

Tuesday, May 22, 2007




I love the old picture of the Carroll Park park house here in Brooklyn. It is taken at the turn of the last century. The view is from the President Street Side looking into the park. The houses in the back are on Smith Street and give a great idea of what Smith Street must have been like. Now we have mostly bars, restaurants and over-priced children's boutiques on that same stretch of street.
The second picture is of the park house now. It is still nice but can you imagine if we had the original?

Now I don't know about you, but some medical studies seem just plain wasteful. The latest comes from Argentina and was just published by the Proceedings of the National Academy of Science. I would hope that real men don't need Viagra to deal with a little bit of jetlag...Read on


Viagra 'could help jetlag'
http://www.ananova.com/news/story/sm_2343046.html?menu=
Viagra could be used to help people flying eastwards recover from jetlag, according to new research.

A team of Argentine scientists found the drug helped hamsters recover up to 50% faster from forward shifts in their daily time cycles.
However, the drug only worked in conjunction with light therapy, and only in one time direction - the equivalent to flying eastbound.
The study features in Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences.
The researchers from the National University of Quilmes shifted the light-dark cycle of hamsters six hours forwards, by switching on lights six hours earlier than usual.
Injection of Viagra before the time shift meant the hamsters adjusted to the new time cycle faster, even when low doses of the drug, which did not cause penile erections, were used.
Professor Robert Lucas said the new research raised the possibility of using Viagra in conjunction with this light treatment.
But he added: "We will have to wait for more research to know whether this will work in humans."
Pfizer, the makers of Viagra, said the drug should only be used in accordance with the approved labelling.

Monday, May 21, 2007


Why not buy their affection?
Bruce Ratner seems to be in the news every day. The man who has been given free reign over a 22 acre site in Brooklyn is now giving away freebees to the residents surrounding his huge construction site. I doubt very much that it will make his "neighbors" feel better since his construction site is going to make their lives miserable for years.


RATNER TO BROOKLYN: BE COOL
By RICH CALDER

BRUCE RATNER
Free air conditioning.

May 21, 2007 -- Developer Bruce Ratner is not only bringing NBA basketball and skyscrapers to Brooklyn, he's bringing free air conditioners and insulated windows.
Ratner last week sent out letters to about 700 residences around - and even within - the 22-acre footprint of his planned $4 billion Atlantic Yards project for Prospect Heights, telling residents that they are eligible to receive air conditioners and double-paned windows to help minimize construction noise.
The developer expects to spend up to $2 million on these goodies to meet a noise-reduction requirement set by state officials when they approved the plan last year.
Daniel Goldstein, spokesman for the Atlantic Yards-opposition group Develop Don't Destroy Brooklyn, said he was stunned to receive the letter, considering he lives in a building targeted for demolition.
"I guess like me, [Ratner's firm] expects me to be living here a long time," said Goldstein, whose group has filed one of the several suits trying to halt construction

.http://www.nypost.com/seven/05212007/news/regionalnews/ratner_to_brooklyn__be_cool_regionalnews_rich_calder.htm

Thursday, May 17, 2007


I don't like Michael Bloomberg. I did not like Rudy Giuliani either, but I really do not like Bloomberg. Frankly, the thought of him running for president in 2008 is scary to me. I believe that the little man has a huge complex. He seems to suffer from what the French call "folie de grandeur," the delusion of greatness or megalomania. For some reason, Bloomberg is hell-bent on leaving his mark on this city. And his heavy handprint is evident everywhere here in Brooklyn. He unleashed the biggest building boom in New York City history. And what has been going up makes me want to cry. Building after building is rising seemingly unchecked between rows of lovely brownstones. Huge tracks of open land are handed over to single developers for bargain basement prices, and if they need more, well there is always Eminent Domain.
Yes, Bloomberg will be remembered here in New York City long after he is gone. For decades, we will have to live with the consequence of his land grab, be it along the Atlantic Rail Yard, the beaches of Coney Island, Flatbush Avenue or the banks of the Gowanus Canal. Higher and higher those ugly buildings rise...because Bloomberg wants to make sure that his reign in this city is never forgotten. Of that he can be sure.

Below is a great article on Bloomberg

Excerpt from:
The Weekly Sandard
The Mystery Of Michael Bloomberg
WHY DOES A POPULAR BUT MEDIOCRE MAYOR THINK HE SHOULD RUN FOR PRESIDENT
It's safe to say Bloomberg will never be confused with Fiorello LaGuardia. When it comes to holding people accountable, Bloomberg seems to have taken lessons from George W. Bush.

At a time when Brooklyn is experiencing a private sector housing boom, the same businessman mayor who tried to give away valuable Manhattan property for a song has supported a half-billion dollars in direct and indirect subsidies for the Atlantic Yards apartment, office, and arena complex in Brooklyn being built by fellow fat cat and subsidy king Bruce Ratner. Homelessness is at record levels, but no one has been called on the carpet and, again, the public seems to give the mayor credit for trying, even if he fails. And then there are the civil liberties violations: During the GOP convention, hundreds of mostly nonviolent protesters were penned in by chain-link fences topped with barbed-wire for up to 44 hours.

Had homelessness reached unprecedented levels under Giuliani, the interest groups would have been marching in the streets. Had Rudy proposed a similar level of subsidy for a project like Atlantic Yards, the liberals would have howled with rage. Had Giuliani held protesters behind barbed wire, the Village Voice would have relentlessly argued that fascism had (once again) arrived in New York, and the New York Times would have run a 34-part series about the assault on civil liberties.

Why didn't this happen? It didn't occur for the same reason most Republicans have been remarkably quiet about Bloomberg's penchant for raising taxes and revenue by (1) ticketing store owners with fines for "illegal awnings" (too many letters) and (2) ticketing cars trapped in snow storms. The New York State Republican organization is more of a business, a local franchise, than it is a political party. In 2001, the year he ran for election to succeed Giuliani, Bloomberg donated $705,000 to the state GOP, the largest donation since the days of Nelson Rockefeller. In 2002, while George Pataki was running for reelection for his third and final term as governor, Bloomberg donated another half-million to the party, and he's continued to give. The money buys acquiescence if not adulation.

To read more of the article:
http://www.weeklystandard.com/Content/Public/Articles/000/000/013/602vjbrc.asp

This is the time of year when New York Public schools send out a letter to parents urging them to make sure that their children adhere to the dress code. I have not received one for a while since daughter is out of school and Moody Teen son would not be caught out of his oversized jeans and T-shirt uniform. However, when I did get the letter by way of the children's backpack, I remember that it said something like: "Now that the weather is warmer, please make sure that your child is dressed appropriately." The code dictated that shorts had to be below the knee, tank tops or strapless dresses were out. I guess it was a way to discourage little Lolitas from distracting the school lessons.
I always presumed that all this stuff was self evident and resented the letter when it came like clock work on the first sunny spring day. I also resented being told what my daughter could wear. For though the letter was meant to address boys' and girls' wardrobe, we all knew that it was meant for our girls.
However, I should not complain. Read the article below, illustrating the crackdown on feminism in Iran. Not that Iran has been the bastion for feminism in the last couple of decades, but it is still hard to comprehend how a government can terrorize half of the citizens it represents in the name of religion.

THE STRUGGLE FOR GENDER EQUALITY IN IRAN
Tehran Cracks Down on Feminist Movement
URL: http://www.spiegel.de/international/world/0,1518,483295,00.html

The burgeoning feminist movement in Iran is coming under increased pressure from Ahmadinejad's hardline regime. Activists who are campaigning to improve women's rights are being harassed, arrested and imprisoned for violating "national security."
The growing movement has largely taken place in the shadow of a global diplomatic crisis. For months, as the world focuses its attention on Iran's nuclear intentions, Iranian feminists have been bravely fighting the country's entrenched patriarchy.
But even as the world has taken little notice of the activists, Iranian authorities have. Accusing the women of being a threat to national security and of using foreign funds to stir up dissent in Iran, Tehran, in recent months has been doing what it can to crush the home-grown feminist movement.
The most recent move in the ongoing crackdown was the arrest of prominent activist Zeinab Peyghambarzadeh earlier this month. The 21-year-old was arrested after she had gone to court to answer questions about her participation in a rally in March. The crackdown, however, has been gaining steam for months.
Over the past 10 months the Iranian security forces have "become more and more aggressive even as women's actions have become more peaceful and more tame," one activist, Jila Baniyaghoub, told Associated Press. "By tightening the noose on us, they are warning us that they will not tolerate even the mildest criticism," she said.
In recent months Peyghambarzadeh and her fellow activists have been organizing a series of demonstrations across the country to rally against patriarchal laws and structures in Iran, including polygamy, unfair inheritance laws, and a lack of custody rights in divorce settlements. They have likewise been going out to talk with Iranian women in the streets, universities, schools and factories. They have also been active on the Internet, setting up a number of Web sites dedicated to women's issues.
The most prominent supporter of the movement is Shirin Ebadi, the Nobel Peace Prize Laureate. According to Ebadi the popular support for the women's movement has unsettled the regime in Tehran. They see the feminists as calling into question the Iranian constitution, which is based on Shariah law and effectively treats women as second-class citizens.
"With a correct interpretation of Islam we can have equal rights for women," Ebadi said in a recent interview with Radio Free Europe, adding that women in Iran "haven't had the opportunity ... to demonstrate their capabilities." In an earlier interview with SPIEGEL ONLINE, Ebadi said that "harassment is a fact of life for someone pursuing human rights in Iran."
On March 4, over 30 women, including Peyghambarzadeh, were arrested after they attended a protest rally in support of a number of arrested activists. Police loaded the 31 women into a bus and drove them to Tehran's Evin prison where they were blindfolded, forced to wear chadors and interrogated, before being released over the following weeks.
According to Reporters Without Borders, four other women's rights activists were given prison sentences in March for using the Internet to demand better conditions for women in the country. The "cyber-feminists" had been trying to collect a million signatures to call for a change to discriminatory laws. The women were found guilty of "violating national security," and given sentences ranging from six months to a year.
"Despite the constant harassment of its members, the Iranian feminist movement is growing and is alarming the government," Reporters Without Borders said in a statement. "The Internet is now a battle-ground between these women, who are just demanding the same rights as men, and a regime that remains as rigid as ever."
The series of arrests are an indication that the small progress that had been made under the former reformist president Mohammad Khatami is now being rolled back by his successor, the hard-liner Mahmoud Ahmadinejad, since he was elected in 2005.
The Iranian police are also ramping up their inspections of women to ensure they are adhering to the Islamic dress code. The annual spring offensive to make sure women are covering up enough has been particularly strict this year. And the government in Tehran is now drafting a law to limit female students to half the places in college, instead of the 65 percent they currently occupy.

Monday, May 14, 2007

So I found this nifty web site especially for ex-Brooklynites. It's www.brooklynboard.com, The site encourages people to send in pictures of their Brooklyn past. I think these two are the most interesting because they are not very far from my house. I should see if I can find them and take a picture.



From Catherine Garbellotto
This was my husband's grandfather's store on Union Street between Bond and Union Street taken in 1940. We know the year because that is my mother-in-law and her sister, both pregnant with my husband and his cousin.



By Karen Hergenrider:
Here's a picture of my grandparents Thomas & Virginia Pappas' store in South Brooklyn. Being that they were from Greece, having an Italian deli was quite an accomplishment! This was on the corner of Union Street and Third Avenue. I don't know when the photo was taken. There is a wreath on the window that says SUCCESS. Virginia died in 1951. Later, my dad, John, ran the store with his dad until 1961.



So true, so true. Bill Maher sums up the difference between French politics and U.S.conservative politicians. Touché!



What is a die-hard vegetarian doing promoting a barbeque place? How can I resist a place called "Fette Sau?"
The translation from the German basically means "Fat Pig" and is also an expression used to insult someone who is a bit corpulant. Great name for a meat restaurant. Will have to try it. Boy, I hope they have some salad for me to eat!
The place is located on Metropolitan Avenue in Williamsburg. Did anyone try it yet? Leave a comment to let me know what it is like.
I wonder if it can hold a candle to Dinosaur BBQ in Harlem
http://pardonmeforasking.blogspot.com/2007/04/dinosaur-barbeque-in-harlem-new-york.html


A great Post-Mother's Day picture. One can never have enough mothers, I say.

Sunday, May 13, 2007



The smaller one is the older one, the bigger one is the younger one. C & M, College Girl and Moody Teen. My Brood. My Mother's Day.

It has been a pretty uneventful Mother's Day here in Brooklyn. For that, I am thankful. I am old enough to enjoy and relish the idea that everything is fine, everyone is healthy and we are all together on a beautiful sunny Sunday.
An acquaintance recently told me that our children are here because of us, so we better do right by them. Interesting viewpoint. I have been doing right by my children since 1987, when the first was born. They may argue with me on that point, but I know I have been doing more than right by them. Mothering is a hard job. It is also pretty thankless and discouraging sometimes. Though the thought has occurred to me more than once, it is a job that one cannot walk away from. It is also an effort without guarantees. Parents can only hope that their efforts are enough to make their children grow into successful adults. Or simply into nice, happy and healthy people.
I love my two. I could not imagine a life without them. I hope that throughout their lives, they will remember all the lessons I taught them, the way I remember the ones my mother ingrained in me. I am who I am because of my mother's love. I wish I could tell her Happy Mother's Day. But this is the fourth Mother's Day without her. It is not the same and will never be again. I think she would have been proud of the adult I became.

Friday, May 11, 2007



I can't even imagine why Smith Street keeps on being written up. What a bunch of crock. Some restauranteurs open a few small but overprized restaurants, others follow. Then bar owners, with the help of dysfunctional State Liquor Authority, open three bars on every block, and Voila! Time Out and N.Y. Times write about it every week. Yes, I know, I should be glad that real estate prices are going through the roof, but we also have to live here for Christ sake!
I for one miss the quaint little neighborhood I used to live in.



From "Time Out" Magazine This Week
BROOKLYN
Brooklyn band Life in a Blender’s new song laments, “What Happened to Smith [Street]?”
Well, here’s what: Gentrification’s come so far that a retired Westchester millionaire couple has decided to sell its empty-nest mansion and move to a building right on Restaurant Row!

May 5, 2007 / News / Carroll Gardens–Cobble Hill
From this … to this! Older suburbanites settling on Smith St
By Ariella Cohen
The Brooklyn Paper


Smith St., Brooklyn: $1.6 mil


From "The Brooklyn Paper"
It’s the invasion of the suburban grandparents!

Two Westchester millionaires are selling their $1.7-million mansion — complete with a swimming pool, plenty of extra bedrooms for the grandkids and five lush acres to run around on — and moving to a nondescript, 1,700-square-foot apartment above a dry cleaner on Smith Street.
“We’ve been in the suburbs seeing more chipmunks than people for a while. We’re ready for a change,” said Mimi Miles, who, with her husband Jeff, recently bought 285 Smith St. on the corner of Sackett Street in Carroll Gardens for $1.6 million.
The Miles decided last year to flee their tony Croton-on-Hudson nest — selling the seven classic cars that lived in its double-decker garage — and move to the city, where, Jeff Miles said, “we would have less to take care of.”
“I sold three Porsches and got a Subaru Forester that I can park on the street,” added Miles, a 63-year-old semi-retired perfume industry chemist.
A generation ago, people from swank enclaves like Croton-on-Hudson — where it is not unheard of for a person to commute to a Lower Manhattan office via helicopter — wouldn’t have pulled over for a cannoli on gritty, Godfather-run Smith Street, much less lived there.
Even five years ago, following the street’s evolution into a trendy restaurant row, a couple like the Miles would have been far more likely to settle in Brooklyn Heights or Park Slope.
Certainly, the Miles are far from pioneers on the ever-upscaling restaurant row, but they do represent just how far the street has come since the restaurant row’s founding father Alan Harding opened the street’s first stylish bistro, Patois, in 1998.
Hip Smith Street has grown up — so naturally, it’s now attracting the grown-ups.
“Ten years ago the buildings were [cheap enough] that someone [young] could come in,” Harding said. “Now, the buildings are $1.5 million and there aren’t that many people with that kind of money.”
Mimi Miles said she and her husband chose the brick, three-story building after looking at homes in Park Slope and visiting Williamsburg with their 26-year old-son.
“Park Slope is too settled and Williamsburg is too young,” said Miles, who described herself as “a woman of a certain age.”
For the Mileses, Smith Street was the ideal middle ground.
“Smith isn’t done yet, but it’s not too much either,” she said.
Not everyone agrees. In fact, the Mileses’ move almost sounds like a new verse tacked onto the end of Life in a Blender’s just-released Smith Street dirge, “What Happened to Smith?” The catchy pop tune laments the loss of the street’s mythically gritty image, the identity that once kept homebuyers like the Miles away.
“Now they live there — and I live somewhere cheaper and commute back for shows,” said Don Ralph, frontman for the Brooklyn-born band.
Meanwhile, those who remain on the block say that they will welcome the new neighbors.
“In my experience, Smith Street has been a place for thirtysomething creative types with some money and a taste for the finer things,” said Lara Fieldbinder, owner of the indie fashion boutique Dear Fieldbinder at 198 Smith St.
“But there’s room for all kinds.”
There goes — or here comes — the neighborhood.
©2007 The Brooklyn Paper

Thursday, May 10, 2007



Well, faithful readers, you will be happy for me that the painting in the little studio in Manhattan is almost done. The kitchen and the bathroom have yet to be addressed, but those need a bit more construction, less cosmetic work.
And the place is looking soooo much better. So much better in fact that I am starting to regret not moving in there myself. After all, this was my place when I was a young fashion designer working on 7th Avenue. Before I got married and had two kids.
Now young College Daughter will live there.
Yesterday, while walking around the East Side looking to buy a mattress for the place, I could not help but wishing I could just move back myself. Sometimes, mothering is a damn hard job, especially mothering the moody 15-year old who still lives at home. He can change personas in a flash which is quite exhausting. Like living with Dr. Jeckyll and Mr. Hyde. So the idea of having a little retreat of my own became very appealing. Very much so indeed. It was just momentary madness, I assure you. I have no intentions of doing anything like that. Though I saw a friend of mine recently, mother of two grown daughters and a much younger son who could not contain her giggles as she told me with the biggest grin that she was moving into the top floor apartment of her brownstone. She was leaving her husband and son on the bottom parlor floor. She seemed so happy, I could not help but be, well, a bit jealous. I could move to the third floor of my brownstone, except it is already inhabited by my grouchy son.
Before you all get the wrong idea, let me assure you that everything is well here at home in Brooklyn. It sometimes is difficult being the adult, being the mother. Sometimes, just doing something for one's self would be just heavenly. Like having a place of one's own.

Wednesday, May 9, 2007



Putzfimmel: Noun; An obsession with cleaning
Now I don't want any comments about the fact that I am making fun of Germany's preoccupation with cleanliness. I am German myself, so I can get away with it. As a matter of fact, I have been accused of having a Putzfimmel, though you could not tell from my house at the moment, what with me heading off to Manhattan every day for the last two weeks. I just thought the above picture kind of illustrated the Teutonic obsession with keeping thinks spic-and-span.
Now if Luft'waffe' were not so expensive from New York, I would fly them instead of those other, slightly dirtier airlines.

Tuesday, May 8, 2007



Back and forth, back and forth to Manhattan to work on that little studio apartment. Of course it is taking much longer than I thought. I am kind of under the gun because College Daugher is finished with her finals tomorrow and has to move out of her dorm by the end of the week. We could just move her back here to Brooklyn for a few days of course. But nah! I don't relish the idea of bringing her stuff here just to schlepp it back to Manhattan.
What does all of this have to do with John Irving? I have been catching up on my reading on the subway. John Irving's " Widow For A Day" has me wishing that my ride would take longer. It's that good. Great literature? Well, no. But so moving that I am sitting on the train fighting back tears.
Years ago, when I was a teenager, my mother gave me Irving's "The World According To Garp" to read. It had just come out and it was on the bestseller list at the time. I loved it. It is still one of my favorite books. "Widow" is almost as good. Some passages are simply heartbreaking. The subject of loss, of regrets, of growing up...the choices we make which define our lives...Irving is a master at story telling. Insignificant details on one page are woven in so subtly that they take the reader by surprise when they reappear pages later to become a turning point in the novel. Maybe Irving just plays off my own deep rooted fear that the small things are the catalysts that change one's life forever. (Yes, I do sweat the small stuff, compulsively)
I am already regretting the fac that this book has to end.

Monday, May 7, 2007



I hardly ever take our car and drive here in Brooklyn. No need to! There are subways that take me anywhere I want to go. The f---ing F, as we call it, is just around the corner. So, it is mostly my husband who takes it when he has to see clients outside the city or when he has a major installation for work. He also takes it on the week-end to take Master Teen, our 15-year old moody teen, to soccer every week-end. I try to stay out of that soccer thing. My feeling is that I am dealing with school stuff, piano, S.A.T. prep and all the other things you deal with when you have school-aged kids.
This Sunday though, husband could not take son. There are no convenient trains to the Parade Grounds at Prospect Park where the games take place. So reluctantly, I drove the car. It is not so much the driving that freaks me out. Granted, New York drivers are agressive beyond reason, but it is the parallel parking manoeuvre when you reach your destination that cause my palms to sweat. So it was with quite a bit of prepidation that I set off on my way on Sunday with son in tow. I had allowed enough time to reach my destination. However, one lap around the parade ground confirmed my worst fears: no parking in sight. The few small spots available were barely big enough to fit a Mini Cooper or a Smart car, which by the way would be my car of choice here in the city. Not that we are driving a Hummer or a Suburban. No, our car is a plain and simple Volvo station wagon. But if you are not used to driving, let me tell you, it feels as though you are dragging a tank around. I let out my son so that he could join his team on time. I drove round and round, figuring that I would have to wait in a bus stop or in front of a water hydrant till the end of son's soccer match. In a last ditch effort, I went down one of the side streets. Argyle Road was good to me. Very good. Behind s dumpster, I spyed a spot big enough for three cars. That was just the size spot I needed. On my second attempt, without anyone waiting behind me, I suavely guided the car into the spot, moved forward and parked. Job well done. The vehicle was perfectly parallel to the curb. I felt good. No, I felt great.
I think even moody teen was impressed as I walked nonchalantly to the game field. Ah, everything was fine with the world.
And then I started worrying about finding a big enough spot to parallel park into on our street on the way back...
That is the trouble with feeling victorious. The feeling never lasts long.


I know my French friend Violaine is upset this morning. Sorry, Violaine. She did not want Sarkozy to win the election. He is another one of those conservatives who will bully his way through his presidency. A child of immigrants who is anti-immigrant. Go figure. It will be interesting to return to France this summer and to check out the mood.
Though the choice of prez is not to my liking, I have to say that the 70% voter rate in this run-off election puts American voters to shame. Pardon me for asking, but could it be that voting takes place on a Sunday and is made easy compared to the U.S. where people have to find time on an already impossibly busy workday!

Wednesday, May 2, 2007




"Does This Mean You're Moving On" by The Airborne Toxic Event. A California band that took its name from a reference in Don DeLillo's novel "White Noise."
This is probably the sad song sung by the poor schmoh who put a Post-it note on his girlfriend's forehead to remember her name. See yesterday's blog entry for explanation

Now this is creative thinking. And funny! An ad for Post-It notes.

Tuesday, May 1, 2007


On my way into Manhattan today, I observed a mother with her two energetic kids in the subway. During the time it took the F train to go from Delancy to 14th Street, I became exhausted just observing this poor woman. The kids could not have been older than 6 and 4, but the mother looked at least 50. The only thought going through my mind was: " Thank goodness, I had my kids early!"
Here I am, in my mid-*&^%% (hahaha you thought I would actually tell you?) with one college-age daughter and a 15-year old, and I am amazed that people older than me have the energy to deal with little ones. Good for them, I guess. Little kids, teens....young parents, older parents..no matter, it sure is a tough job.

Just today, the New York Post published an article discussing a poll revealing that a staggering 47% of mothers say that they are the least happy person in the household. That's big. Who would you say is the unhappiest member in your family?


Yes, I am still painting. As a matter of fact, I am in the process of painting two places at once. I am that good...
No, I am not done with Husband's office, which if I may say so is turning out quite nicely. In addition, I have started painting a studio apartment in the city which belongs to my father. It has been rented out for the last 20 something years, precisely as long as I moved out to get married. ( Can you imagine that the doorman recognized me? That is good, right?)
Now my daughter is moving in. Nice deal for her, I know. If she were not such a great kid, I would take the place and move in myself. Any way, I am glad she has a place to escape the dorm situation in college ( See entry below on mean girls.) But that leaves me to clean up and paint, paint paint. As a matter of fact, I am going again this morning. I am done with the ceiling, so today starts the actual transformation by painting the walls. Laura Ashley Beige Number 3 for those of you who are as serious about color as I am.
Then tomorrow, some more oral surgery. Life keeps on getting better. But I'm not complaining...

I have not posted a Dog Of The Week entry for a while, though I can tell you, there are many of them ugly canines out there. So here is one. Can you say : "Here Doggie, Doggie?"